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Finding Roger Federer Meltdown footage on YouTube is like finding a seat on the Number 4 Lexington Avenue subway at 9:30 in the morning. [Non-New Yorkers, take note: it's rare.] The Greatest of All Time usually deals with blown shots by dragging his middle finger across his forehead and tucking his hair behind his ear. Not this time. This was a semi-final match with Novak Djokovic at the 2009 Sony Ericsson Open in Miami, Florida. Djokovic just broke Fed in the third and deciding set and was up 15-0 when the Greatest of All Time took his eyes off a routine approach shot that could have evened the score. Federer went through lots of racquets when he was playing the junior circuit; wonder if he felt a little wave of nostalgia upon banging this one hard into the court.

On the Sideline

Entries from December 1, 2012 - December 31, 2012


Nadal Withdraws from Australian Open

Nadal's comeback is in turmoil, as is his stomach. Photo courtesy of AP/Anja NiedringhausEleven-time Grand Slam winner Rafael Nadal hasn't played a tour match since his shocking second-round ouster last June at Wimbledon and he won't be playing any time soon in the new year.

Nadal announced on his Facebook page that he's withdrawing from the 2013 Qatar ExxonMobil Open in Doha next week, and the Australian Open next month because of a stomach virus that has prevented him from practicing. He's already withdrawn from this week's exhibition match in Abu Dhabi.

"My knee is much better and the rehabilitation process has gone well as predicted by the doctors, but this virus didn’t allow me to practise this past week," he said.

“I will have to wait until the [Abierto Mexicano Telcel] Acapulco tournament to compete again although I may consider to play before [that] at another ATP World Tour event.”

Although Nadal blames stomach flu, tennis watchers think the 26-year-old's knees are the real reason he's not ready to compete.  Yahoo! Sports reports fellow Spaniard Nicholas Almagro seemed surprised that the former world number one and 2009 Australian Open champ wouldn't be returning to Melbourne.

"It's five sets, his knee's not really good, he's not ready for that," Almagro told reporters at the Abu Dhabi tournament.  There was no mention of intense intestinal distress.  Nadal has suffered from tendonitis in both knees and has been recovering from a tear in the patellar tendon in his left knee and an impingement of the fat pad behind the kneecap.

There's no schadenfreude among Roger Feder's fan base.  Most of the comments on the ATP's website are expressing sadness that Fed's archrival won't be around to push the Greatest of All Time to new heights of....well, greatness.

Federer's road to his 18th Grand Slam title and fifth Australian Open title has to go through defending champion and world number one Novak Djokovic first.  Oddsmakers have the Serb as the favorite to win.




Tennis Love on Christmas Day

Merry Christmas, my online friends and tennis family. May your stockings be stuffed with cans of new tennis balls and your hearts with gratitude for this life, in all its abundance.

"And did you get what you wanted from this life, even so?
I did.
And what was that?
To call myself beloved, to feel myself beloved
On the earth."

-- with apologies to Raymond Carver, whose poem, "Poem Fragment," I'm quoting from memory.


A Tennis Hater Makes Jewelry for Tennis Lovers

Hazel Nussbaum and I at the New Haven Open last August. Her jewelry line is titled Love Tennis by Hazel, but Hazel Nussbaum comes by her love the hard way, like me, with lots of Hate mixed in.

"My coach said, 'I love hitting with you because we've hit 100 balls and you've probably only missed five, but you got pissed every time you missed those five balls.'"

We shared a knowing look.

"I forget the 95 that were good. I'm focused on the five that were bad."  Oh, yeah, she's a Hater, all right.

I met Hazel at her vendor's booth at the WTA's New Haven Open in New Haven, Connecticut last August.  But I knew of her before that.  

My bracelet. Great gift! Glad I thought of it!Around June, I was searching online for ideas to field to my husband for my birthday (further proof that behind every great man is a smarter, better-organized woman) and I found her sophisticated line of tennis-inspired jewelry.  Mark had dutifully ordered one of her bracelets for me, but it had not arrived by my Red Letter Day (August 19, Haters.  Note it in your calendars. Address provided for flowers and gifts upon request.)  

"Guess who's one of the vendors this year?" Mark had asked me while we watched Marion Bartoli and Sloane Stephens slug out a 3-setter.  "The lady who's making your bracelet!  Maybe we can pick it up at her booth."

We could not.  Nussbaum has been swamped by orders since launching her line in May.  By the end of June, she had received 100 of them, based solely on word of mouth and people like me trolling the Internet for something beside a T-shirt that would express our love of tennis.

Nussbaum came up with the idea for her business two years ago while conducting a similar search. Her mixed doubles team had reached the USTA League nationals in their division (more on that in a moment) and she was looking on site and online for a piece of jewelry to mark the occasion.

You could almost take it off the chain and hit with it."When I travel, I buy jewelry as souvenirs," she said.  "I could not find anything decent.  It was either $2 and wasn't enough for me about tennis, or it was expensive but ... over the top, very literal." 

"They were not stylish, in my opinion."  

Exhibit A: the necklace at right. It takes Tennis Hate to a new, visceral level.    

Nussbaum noodled around with some designs, relying on her background at Unilever as a senior brand manager for St. Ives, which makes deodorants, body washes and lotions.

Encouraged by tennis buddies, who were ordering  Hazel Nussbaum found a manufacturer in Rochester, quit her Unilver job and poured her savings, and passion, into Love Tennis by Hazel.

Love Tennis by Hazel's racquet and ball lariat necklace. So pretty."I'm a tennis nut.  I love it, love it, love it.  It's a borderline obsession, in a bad way.  And I love jewelry to the same degree."

Hazel Nussbaum came by her tennis obsession the way most of us develop our fixations and disorders: her mother.  Her mom was crazy about the sport and taught herself and her daughter to play. "We lived on a dead end in New Rochelle and I had my baby racquet and we just hit."

"Just hitting" with mom was apparently pretty good training. Nussbaum competed in high school and earned a walk-on spot on the Manhattan College tennis team in Riverdale. "I showed up with my Spalding racquet with the zipperhead bag," she recalled.

I swear like a trucker!  People are like, 'Did she really just say that?'"

She had not had any pro instruction up to that point. Her teammates, meanwhile, had played the junior circuit. They called her their "sleeper cell." They showed her how to use different grips and taught her strategy. And they policed her gear. When Manhattan College advanced to the finals of its Metro Atlantic Athletic Conference, Nussbaum says they demanded that she get a "real" racquet and bag.

Hazel and her mom at her booth at the 2012 New Haven Open.Today, Hazel Nussbaum is a 4.5-level player.  She's playing on two women's doubles teams in the USTA Southern Connecticut District this fall, and, combined, has a 6-1 record so far.   

Nussbaum's 2012-2013 mixed doubles season also is off to a great start.  She's got a 5-1 record with Winners All Too.  That's the team that made it to USTA Nationals in 2010, the trip that launched her business.  

Nationals? 4.5? Just TWO losses in 11 doubles matches? Haters, I'm Har-Tru green with Tennis Hate. 

What I love about Hazel is that she gets this, gets the obsessive, perfectionist, critical voice that can get in the way of enjoying and flourishing in the game.  Even now, with all her achievements, Nussbaum says she still must manage the Tennis Hate that drove her to berate herself for missing 5 out of 100 balls.  

"I swear like a trucker!" she confided. "My partner laughs.  People are like, 'Did she really just say that?'"

Oh, no, she didn't!  

"My husband witnessed me play tennis once, and he was so horrified, he refuses to watch me anymore," admitted Nussbaum. "It's our 'no fly zone.'  He said, 'All your matches, it's either you yelling and becoming a monster or you crying!' He won't come.'"

Yeah, Haters, but at least she's got the good sense not to play with her husband.  One time, that led me down such a rocky road of Tennis Hate, I called my poor husband a mother fucker for executing a drop shot.  (It was on my return of serve! I think I deserve just a little slack here.)  

Nussbaum said her key to shaking off an attack of Hate on the court is appreciation.  She learned this at that 2010 mixed doubles National championship, where her team "got trounced."  

"I'm going to honor the situation," she said she told herself.  "I"m healthy enough to be out here.  I have the time. I've got to put things in perspective."

And when she does, Hazel Nussbaum realizes she's blessed.  She gets to express her love for the game as a player, a fan (Nussbaum, whose mom is Swiss, roots for Roger Federer) and, now, as the founder of a growing business. Sales are robust enough for her racquet and ball lariat necklace, pictured above, that Haters who want their husbands to get one for them this Christmas must wait until January.

Damn!  Yet another thing to Hate my Worthy Comrade, Hazel Nussbaum, for!  



Other People's Children

Dad and his little tennis ace, outside the Prospect Park Tennis Center.I see children everywhere, all of a sudden.  I am staring at them, noticing how small they are standing next to their parents, the top of their heads barely reaching their dad's belt buckle or their mom's elbow.

I stare and I think, is that kid a 6-year-old, like Emilie Parker?  

Or maybe the little boy I saw today heading into the Prospect Park Tennis Center with his dad was 7, like Daniel Bardin, who, with Emilie and 18 other little ones, was shot to death by a man with a semi-automatic rifle in their classrooms in Newtown, Connecticut on Friday. (The latest New York Times headlines are here, if you haven't been following them already, which I doubt.)

Children are a steady presence at the Tennis Center. They pour into the lobby with their often-harried parents a few steps behind them for their Pee Wee lessons .  They take the courts as I and my league teammates leave them at 10:00 AM on Saturday mornings, the more Type-As diligently doing warm-up laps.  Some kids head right to the service line and begin hitting red and yellow foam balls across the net to their Type-A parents.  I feel like a bumper car at Coney Island as I steer my way toward the front door through clumps of little people.

Mostly, I pay no attention to them, except to avoid colliding with them or their racquets.  But today I can't help but see them.  They stand out even though they do not stand very high at all. They are striking in their smallness and vulnerability.  Their skin looks translucent.  I'm stunned by how beautiful they all are.  I catch myself staring because I'm trying to understand just how Adam Lanza could have looked at a human being this young and soft and vibrating with energy and kill him (James and Dylan and Noah, Jesse and Chase) or her (Jessica and Ana, Grace, Josephine, Olivia). 

I am not alone in this mental effort.  The whole nation is seeing children, theirs and others, with fresh eyes and trying to understand.  I hope it leads to more than understanding.  I hope it leads to action.



USTA Moves US Open 2013 Men's, Women's Finals

God rested on the seventh day, Sunday, and now the men's finalists in the 2013 US Open will, too. The United States Tennis Association announced it is moving the men's final from Sunday afternoon to Monday afternoon.

It's a familiar position for the men's championship match. It's been held on Monday for the last 5 years because of rain.

The women 's final will be moved from Saturday night to Sunday afternoon. That puts the kibosh on a "Super Saturday" lineup in which the men's semi-finals and the women's championship were played on the same day.  

"Super Saturday," a tradition at the US Open since 1984, is now "Snoozer Saturday." 

By spreading out the US Open's finish over four days, the USTA has brought the final Grand Slam of the season in line with other Slams.  The organization made the scheduling changes after players had complained.

"We listened to the players and understood we needed to accommodate their request for an extra day of rest between the semifinals and final," said USTA spokesman Chris Widmaier.  


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